Freewill?? Destiny?? "Determinism"???

I believe that we control are own fates. As humans we have to make up our mind in every situation we face, in every aspect of our daily life. So with saying this I think that freewill is more plausible than the others. As I stated early we use the ability of freewill every second of our lives and forever more.Yes there are outside factors that we cannot control such as where we are born,family,social class of our birth,creed,and love. But we cannot dwell on things outside our control we must further advance our self on the things we can and by doing this you are practicing freewill.The idea of destiny is one I find fictitious I don't believe that god has a set plan for everyone. Why? Because If we were put on this earth by a higher omnipotent force I would like to hope we were put on here to live a life to its full potential and I don't see living a life in that manner by following a trail already laid out for you. I've always liked the quote "Why follow a path when you can create your own." Destiny leaves no room for creativity. Cause if you have an idea or a new outlook on life whats the purpose then, if it would've happened anyway and what if it was just not your "destiny" for it to happened at all. Maybe in some sense somethings are just meant to happen maybe I'm wrong maybe destiny can co-exist with freewill maybe we were meant to lose friday night for a reason or maybe we controlled our own fates by not playing a great game whatever the answer is I know I have the right, the freewill to ponder over this question or just forget about it. And for anyone who disagrees with me go ahead disagree you'll just be exercising your freewill to oppose my belief and you'll just be proving me right.

ohhhh paradox!!!!